God doesn’t force us to anything. His providence can help us to get saved, but our free will is needed.
“In the Mystery of Baptism and Chrismation a man “puts on Christ” and the Holy Spirit (Gal. 3:27), and it depends on his free will, through living in according to the Gospel commandments, whether he “leav ens” himself with the leaven of the Holy Spirit and firmly becomes a new man in the Image of Christ, or stifles all this by a life according to the fallen man.”
Abbot Nikon Vorobiev

Psalms 41:5-7
Mine enemies speak evil of me, When shall he die, and his name perish? 6. And if he come to see me, he speaketh vanity: his heart gathereth iniquity to itself; when he goeth abroad, he telleth it. 7. All that hate me whisper together against me: against me do they devise my hurt.

"If you have everything else but love, you have nothing. If you hate even a single person, you are disgusting before God."

+ St Gabriel of Georgia