Our pride can make us believe we are the most important and smart people who have a right to be angry. But this is a trap. “Anger enslaves the intellect, and makes you regard your brother with bestial cruelty; it fetters the conscience with uncontrolled impulses of the flesh, and surrenders you for a time to be chastised by the evil spirits to whom you have yielded.” - St Mark The Ascetic

The beauty of Orthodox Christianity ☦

God doesn’t force us to anything. His providence can help us to get saved, but our free will is needed.
“In the Mystery of Baptism and Chrismation a man “puts on Christ” and the Holy Spirit (Gal. 3:27), and it depends on his free will, through living in according to the Gospel commandments, whether he “leav ens” himself with the leaven of the Holy Spirit and firmly becomes a new man in the Image of Christ, or stifles all this by a life according to the fallen man.”
Abbot Nikon Vorobiev

Psalms 41:5-7
Mine enemies speak evil of me, When shall he die, and his name perish? 6. And if he come to see me, he speaketh vanity: his heart gathereth iniquity to itself; when he goeth abroad, he telleth it. 7. All that hate me whisper together against me: against me do they devise my hurt.

"If you have everything else but love, you have nothing. If you hate even a single person, you are disgusting before God."

+ St Gabriel of Georgia

☦️ Blessed memory mitred Archpriest Dmitry Smirnov ☦️
Someone once asked me the question, “Why ask God for something when God knows what we need?”
— The most important thing in our requests is communication itself. It pleases God to communicate with us. But we are like little children who ask for something all the time, not quite realizing whether it is useful for them or not. Parents know better whether they should buy it or not. And so does God. He knows much better what is good for us and what is not.
Children often even beg their parents for things. And we adults are very much like them. But God is the source of all virtues. He is longsuffering and merciful. And He, of course, does not take offense at His annoying children.
And in general, if we trust God, if we have faith, then all we need to ask God is: “Lord, have mercy!” Because we need God's mercy. And we also need to ask that He give us His Spirit.

"If you want to help someone, give them your heart, not just your words."

+ St Paisios of Mt Athos